Hou Yi went back to Mount Kun Lun to visit one of his friends. He became a king of the village and married Chang e, a gorgeous girl who lived in the village. He shot all the nine suns successfully and became a hero. Hou Yi, a brave hunter, rode his house to the top of Mount Kun Lun in order to shot the nine out of the ten hot suns with his bow and arrows. Animals ran as fast as they can to other places. According Lemei, the myth begins when ten hot suns appeared in the sky. The first myth that shows the origin of Mid-Autumn Festival is the myth of Chang e. Lemei’s journal also tells the main purpose of celebrating the event. I also found information of the activities that people do during Mid-Autumn Festival on travelchinaguide’s article “Customs on Mid-Autumn Festival”, Mary-Ann Russon’s article “Moon cakes Mid-Autumn Festival 2014: The History Behind This 3,500-Years-Old Tradition”, and Micheal Kin Wai Siu’s Journal “The Mid-Autumn Festival Lantern in Contemporary Hong Kong”. Xiaoqin Li’s lesson at the University of Glasgow “STORIES of Mid-Autumn Festival” and Kathy By’s article “ Wu Gang and the Middle Autumn Festival”. I use Yang Lemei’s journal “China’s Mid-Autumn” to find out one of the myth that tells about the Mid-Autumn Festival’s origin. To find out what I want to know about Mid-Autumn Festival, I research by reading journals and websites about the event. I also want to know if my family celebrate Mid-Autumn Festival correctly and why Chinese people celebrate the event. I always want to find out the origin of the Mid-Autumn Festival. My mom’s grandfather was Chinese, thus my family celebrate Mid-Autumn Festival every years. Most people in Phnom Penh are familiar with the ritual events because they celebrate the events every year if their families are Chinese or related to Chinese. They also brought ritual events such as, Chinese New Year and Mid-Autumn Festival. They brought their food, language, and culture. Chinese people migrated to Cambodia, especially in Phnom Penh in the past.
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With this line, I’m creating a one-hot encoding string that I can use later to define the 4,000+ columns I’ll use for k-means:įORMAT("IFNULL(ANY_VALUE(IF(tag2='%s',1,null)),0)X%s", tag2, REPLACE(REPLACE(REPLACE(REPLACE(tag2,'-','_'),'.','D'),'#','H'),'+','P'))Īnd training a k-means model in BigQuery is really easy:ĬREATE MODEL `deleting.kmeans_tagsubtag_50_big_a_01` Now - instead of using this small table, let’s use the whole table to compute k-means with BigQuery. ,IFNULL(ANY_VALUE(IF(tag2='jquery',1,null)),0) XjqueryįROM `deleting.stack_overflow_tag_co_ocurrence` ,IFNULL(ANY_VALUE(IF(tag2='android',1,null)),0) Xandroid ,IFNULL(ANY_VALUE(IF(tag2='python',1,null)),0 ) Xpython ,IFNULL(ANY_VALUE(IF(tag2='javascript',1,null)),0) Xjavascript You can reduce or augment the sensibility of these relations with the percent threshold: ‘unit-testing’ a relation to almost every column here, except to ‘php’, ‘html’, ‘css’, and ‘jquery’.‘multi-threading’ shows a relation to ‘python’, ‘java’, ‘c#’, and ‘android`.‘machine-learning’ shows a relation to ‘python’, but not the other way around.‘javascript’ shows a relation to ‘php’, ‘html’, ‘css’, ‘node.js’, and ‘jquery’.What you see here is a co-occurrence matrix: Let’s see first a subset of these results: Then I can use that string to get a huge table, with a 1 for every time a tag co-occurs with the main one at least certain % of time. So I’m going to create a string first that will define all the columns where I want to find co-occurrence. BigQuery ML does a good job of hot-encoding strings, but it doesn’t handle arrays as I wish it did (stay tuned). WHERE tag1 IN (SELECT tag FROM active_tags)ĪND tag2 IN (SELECT tag FROM active_tags) SELECT *, MAX(questions) OVER(PARTITION BY tag1) questions_tag1įROM data, UNNEST(SPLIT(tags, '|')) tag1, UNNEST(SPLIT(tags, '|')) tag2 SELECT *, questions/questions_tag1 percent So I’ll take these relationships and I’ll save them on an auxiliary table - plus a percentage of how frequently a relationship happens for each tag.ĬREATE OR REPLACE TABLE `deleting.stack_overflow_tag_co_ocurrence`įROM `fh-bigquery.stackoverflow_archive.201906_posts_questions` Let’s find tags that usually go together:Ĭo-occurring tags on Stack Overflow questions ORDER BY 2 DESC Top Stack Overflow tags by number of questions. In this picture I only have 240 tags - how would you group and categorize 4,000+ of them?įROM `fh-bigquery.stackoverflow_archive.201906_posts_questions`, These are the most active Stack Overflow tags since 2018 - they’re a lot. You can check out more about working with Stack Overflow data and BigQuery here and here. In this post he works with BigQuery – Google’s serverless data warehouse – to run k-means clustering over Stack Overflow’s published dataset, which is refreshed and uploaded to Google’s Cloud once a quarter. Felipe Hoffa is a Developer Advocate for Google Cloud. Visualizing a universe of clustered tags. How would you group more than 4,000 active Stack Overflow tags into meaningful groups? This is a perfect task for unsupervised learning and k-means clustering - and now you can do all this inside BigQuery. So I became interested in this idea of television as a two-edged sword, that it can be a great medium for spreading information and understanding between peoples, but when it’s a tool of our slavish adherence to the incumbent philosophy that the free market is the god that we should all bow down to, it’s a very dangerous medium. My general view is that television when it becomes commercialized and profit-based tends to trivialize and dehumanize our lives. Things coalesced slowly as I became more and more interested or obsessed, pick your word, with the inordinately powerful and all-encompassing effect that television seems to have on the human race. And I had at one point this rather depressing image of some alien creature seeing the death of this planet and coming down in their spaceships and sniffing around and finding all our skeletons sitting around our TV sets and trying to work out why it was that our end came before its time, and they come to the conclusion that we amused ourselves to death. “The album title came from a book by Neil Postman, who wrote a short book called Amusing Ourselves to Death, which is about the history of the media, particularly as it relates to political communication – i.e., how things have changed since such works as Lincoln’s speeches were made available for the general public to read. The idea that by isolating the high- profile enemy like Gaddafi you can entertain the electorate into polling booths to put the X in the right place is what I call the soap opera of state.” Roger Waters (749) In the preamble to this record I talk about that, because one of the other parallel concerns in the record is the idea of politics as entertainment. They’ve already gone out and quite happily bombed Tripoli. What’s Reagan going to do if one of his frigates is blown up by Gaddafi using a nuclear weapon? I hate to think. Because one of these people who think they’re not getting a fair slice of the cake is going to get hold of these weapons and fucking well let them off. Which is why I have great concerns about the proliferation of nuclear weapons and why I think it essential that Europe becomes a nuclear-free zone. I am concerned with the idea in this piece that rampant, unrestricted market forces are trampling over everybody’s fucking lives and making the world a horrible place to live in and also increasing the potential risk of us all blowing ourselves up because we’ve become so frustrated in our efforts to compete with each other. I just feel we could be doing a lot better than we are if we off-load the idea that the only route to progress, the cause of human happiness, is competition. And that we can reduce the percentage possibility of some truly appalling trauma, be it the Bomb, AIDS, a minor invasion, or simply being told you have no worth, we don’t need you, piss off. I know there is a utopian idea that the possibility exists for communities to exist where people try to look after one another, and co-operate with one another, in the hope that they can get from the cradle to the grave, and at some point along the way feel fulfilled. But is home the most important thing to a human being in the sense of belonging to a certain thing or person? Having that sense of security and the feeling you are not going to be moved on or blown to pieces? The feeling that you have the right to a continuous existence within the context of the society to which you belong from the moment you are born to the moment you die in order to arrange yourself into a good shape to die in? I don’t know. Is home keeping out of the weather? Being reasonably well fed? Being safe? Is home doing those things in the context of a family? We all think we understand what we mean by the idea of home. To answer your question of what the main themes of the record are, Ian Ritchie, who produced the record, is quite distressed that I didn’t call it Home, which for a long time was the working title, because one of the things that the record is about is what home is. It is lend credence to the idea that in there somewhere is a story, if you care to search for it. It’s a bit like the map in the frontispiece of Winnie The Pooh, in that it has dotted lines showing Billy’s route, where great-uncle David’s house is, and where Radio KAOS is in Laurel Canyon. “Included in this program is a map of the northern hemisphere, showing all the western listening devices, where they are and what they are, and including an exploded map of South Wales where BILLY, the main character, comes from, and an exploded map of LA, where he goes to. Our glorious God appeared to Abraham, our ancestor, in Mesopotamia before he lived in Haran. From your living room to your farm, design and decorate to your heart’s content!ĭozens of RPG-styled Quests to keep you engaged while you relax and farmĪ Skill Tree with over 100 options.7 The high priest said to Stephen, “Are these things true?”Ģ Stephen answered, “Brothers and fathers, listen to me. Home Decorating with more than 100 pieces of furniture. Unique Monsters throughout the world to fight past on your way to becoming the hero of Sun Haven Tons of Player Customization: 200+ different race and clothing optionsĨ Player Multiplayer: Play with up to EIGHT total people in one game, make your own farm and story in online multiplayerįIFTEEN romance-able characters: (humans, elves, demons, and multiple animal races) or woo your own partner in multiplayer! Romance your character of choice regardless of gender or race and get married SEVEN different player races: Human, Demon, Elf, Angel, Elemental, Naga, and Amari (animal race, including cats, dogs, fish, birds, and reptiles) THREE Worlds to Explore: The Cozy Human Town of Sun Haven, The Beautiful Elven Village of Nel’ Vari, and Urban Monster City Withergate Features: Farm, Fish, Fight, Mine, Smith, Cook, and Craft to revitalize Sun Haven But if a watering can is more your style, then there are nonviolent alternatives to overcome dangerous encounters - even with the final boss! Either way, it’s up to you to wield your abilities and become the hero of your own story. If you prefer a sword in hand, then slash away by all means. Your experience in these places will grow your skills dramatically, but how you focus that growth is entirely up to you. The rumored monster city of Withergate features a bustling nightlife that never ends - literally - since the city is covered in neverending darkness. The mythical Elven town of Nel’Vari rests deep in the forest where the Elves live in balance with nature. The main quest itself takes you through two captivating towns outside of Sun Haven. Your hard work will let you upgrade your farm, restore shops in Sun Haven, and even bring in new neighbors! As you bring the hustle and bustle back to town, the EXP you earn from each quest will help you level up to advance through a main questline journey. As a farmer, miner, fisher, warrior, craftsman, and even a mage, you’ll find that adventure awaits you here. You’ve just arrived in Sun Haven, a medieval town full of people from all walks of life doing their best to make their beloved town thrive as it once did. Về trò chơi này Sun Haven is a multiplayer fantasy farming sim with dragons, magic, a main questline, RPG-style skill progression, and even a final boss. Throughout Early Access, we will be responding to player comments and concerns as fast as possible, incorporating feedback into Sun Haven.” “We will be using our Sun Haven discord server and steam forums to involve the community in the development process. “We plan to offer a full experience to our players in early access and as a result we will be pricing the game the same as when it is fully released.”īạn có kế hoạch tương tác với cộng đồng trong quá trình phát triển của mình như thế nào? Liệu trò chơi sẽ có giá khác nhau giữa và sau khi Truy Cập Sớm? 100 Quests, Including an RPG Style Main Questline 6 Player Races (Human, Demon, Elf, Angel, Elemental, and Amari (animal race, including cats, dogs, fish, birds, and reptiles) Farming, Combat, Foraging, Woodcutting, Mining, Smithing “The current game reflect a Sun Haven Town that is fully playable, and the other two worlds (Nel'Vari and Withergate) as mostly complete. Tình trạng hiện tại của phiên bản truy cập sớm là gì? “The full version of Sun Haven plans to add extra features such as: A completed main questline, new areas to explore in the Elven city of Nel’Vari and the Monster City Withergate, more dialogue with romanceable characters, the Naga Player Race, polished gameplay, and bug fixes.” Phiên bản đầy đủ sẽ có sự khác biệt thế nào so với phiên bản truy cập sớm? “Sun Haven will be in Early Access for approximately 6 months.” Trò chơi này sẽ ở trạng thái truy cập sớm trong khoảng bao lâu? We are looking forward to getting player feedback so we can iterate and improve our game to ensure we deliver a game you will love.” “We believe that involving the community in the development process is the best way to make a successful game. Technically, it takes longer to save a PNG at the maximum compression level (remember, 0 is lowest and 9 is highest), but on modern computers, it’s not usually a noticeable delay, so feel free to use the maximum by default.Įxactly how the different compression levels work is a bit beyond the scope of this article (and to be honest, a bit beyond my very limited grasp of mathematics and information theory), but you can read about them here on Wikipedia if you’re curious. The tradeoff comes in the form of larger final file sizes. Everything is lossless, and you get the option of including transparent sections in your image. PNG compression is actually quite a lot simpler than JPEG because you don’t have to worry about losing any image quality. Search engines consider how quickly your page loads when determining ranking position, so make sure you trim those files down as much as possible without compromising (too much) on quality. This is especially important when it comes to saving images for the web. If you’re not saving a photo, you can often get away with setting the quality down to 25 or 30 – always test your options! Usually, a quality setting between 70-85 is ideal – you get some of the benefits of a smaller file size, without having to lose much image quality. At this setting the image is too overcompressed to use for much of anything, but it shows how important it is to set the right compression level. If we go any lower, the subjects get almost unrecognizable.Īll that sounds bad, until you see that the file size has dropped from 2.0 MB to 97.8 KB, over 20 times smaller than at 100% JPG quality. Setting this photo to be saved at 20% JPG quality seriously degrades the image quality, creating color banding across the image, especially noticeable in the lighting in the clouds and color shifts in the foreground trees. The Export dialog box will also update with an estimated file size for your chosen settings. To see the effects of your compression adjustments in the GIMP workspace, simply check the ‘Show preview in image window’ box. Large areas of similar color can compress quite well without noticeably losing image quality, often reducing your file size by 50% or more. If your image is a photo, you’ll want to compare a few different settings to find out what looks best. If you need the absolute best in image preservation, TIFF is the best choice – but the files get quite large. TIFF files are most commonly used by imaging professionals who demand exceptionally precise image quality, thanks to the ability to store complex bit depths without degradation. If you need to use transparency in your image, you’ll have to choose PNG, but if you want your image accessible to the widest audience then JPEG is your best bet. The best compression level will depend on two things: the content of your image, and any file requirements you have. PackBits compression is only effective on black and white images, and can actually increase the file size of more complex color images. LZW and Deflate both provide lossless compression, while JPEG provides lossy compression as usual. TIFF can also optionally use compression. We’ll take a look at compression level settings for common image file types and discuss which options are best for different situations, whether you’re trying to save images for a website at the smallest possible file size or to make sure that your photographic masterpieces look their best. I’m usually very demanding when it comes to image quality, but sometimes you have to make sacrifices to save a few extra KB, and I’ll help you figure out how to get the best image you can with GIMP. My name is Thomas Boldt, and over the years I’ve saved more digital images than I can possibly count, from high-resolution fine art photos to lazily-edited dank memes. The highest compression rate (0 is lowest and 9 is highest) will make the smallest file, but it will also take the longest to save. The ‘Compression level’ setting when saving PNG files determines the final file size of your image and also affects how long it will take to save. Each one has a quality/compression setting that you can adjust for your needs, but they don’t all work the same way. Usually, the highest-quality images have the largest file sizes, but compression allows you to shrink that file size down while maintaining quality – the trick is where you set it.Ĭompression level in GIMP appears when you’re exporting your finished work as one of the standard image file types like JPEG, PNG, or TIFF. The simplest explanation is that compression level helps you balance image quality against image size. 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Whereas the LGBTQIA+ community has a lot to be thankful for, celebrations this year will be a little more bittersweet than we'd like as it has become clear that we all have a hell of a lot more fighting to do. However, 2021 has been a tough year for the community, with the rights of gays and lesbians, as well as queer, transgender, and non-binary friends increasingly under attack. But with many in-person Pride events and parades back on-whether responsibly masked or vaxxed-there's certainly a brighter, more hopeful tone to this year's celebrations. Nothing, not even a worldwide pandemic, can truly take the pride out of the LGBTQIA+ community. With Pride parades being largely cancelled due to COVID-19 last year, we're happy to say that, this year, Pride is back, baby! Well, not that it ever actually left, of course. As with most gay clubs at the time, police raids were common, but this specific morning raid set into motion the protests and fights that many would have for years to follow that have given the LGBTQIA+ community their rights today. at the time, frequented by the gay and lesbian population because of its intimate dance policy. According to “ Stonewall: The Riots That Sparked the Gay Revolution” by David Carter, it was the largest gay establishment in the U.S. This summer marks 52 years since the early morning hours of Friday, June 28, when police raided The Stonewall Inn at 51-53 Christopher Street in Manhattan’s Greenwich Village neighborhood. AskMen may get paid if you click a link in this article and buy a product or service.Ī lot happened in 1969: Woodstock attracted more than 350,000 rock-n-roll fans, Neil Armstrong and Edwin “Buzz” Aldrin became the first humans to set foot on the Moon, the Beatles gave their final performance on the roof of Apple Records, and The Stonewall Riots set in motion the modern movement for gay, lesbian, queer, and transgender rights in America. The AskMen editorial team thoroughly researches & reviews the best gear, services and staples for life. I sometimes like posts of past girls I've dated to show I liked them as human beings. If having the illusion of her around is confusing or a constant reminder of broken promises, I would recommend removing her from your social media to officially close that chapter. You knew the promise of friendship was a lie when you never spoke or saw each other again. Perhaps things were just a little more simplified before the days of social media. I wouldn't interpret this as indications of friendship or anything meaningful, just voyeurism into the life of someone she used to know. Your ex may think nothing about looking at your posts because it is no longer relevant to her other than it being one of the many people she has on her social media feed. What causes more confusion than anything else is keeping an ex on your social media because a builds a false connection to the other person's life that doesn't exist in the real world. It's meant to make things less abrupt and final for both sides, but the reality is that most people just stop talking to each other because that chapter is closed. I think it is normal to say "lets be friends" after a breakup. I guess I'm just wondering, is she an ******* for this, or is there some potentially noble reason why an ex would act completely indifferent to someone they used to sleep with 5 nights a week? Edited Novemby ccas93 Especially when I respected her and treated her as well as I did. Like I didn't think we'd talk much because we were broken up, but the total indifference annoys me. My feelings for her are pretty gone, but it sort of bugs me that she can't be bothered to swipe her thumb on a single damn post of mine, let alone reach out one time to see how I'm doing. She does look at my stories usually in less than 10 min after me posting. So much for wanting to be part of my life, lol. I posted a few times shortly after the breakup no reaction. To be clear, I currently have little to no interest in getting back together with her in a romantic way.Īnnnnnd it's been 3 months now, and not one text from her to see how I'm doing, not even one single 'like' on a social media post. Plus at the time I was too hurt to contact her first. I decided to go NC on her for my own healing, and because she was the one that wanted to break up and needed space. It ended in a lot of tears for both of us and her repeating that she "still wanted to be part of my life." At first I wasn't hot on this idea because I'm not big on being friend-zoned, but then I told her before I left her house that I didn't hate her, and she could contact me if she ever wanted. But I wasn't ready for it to be over then, and was upset and hurt. In retrospect, I sort of feel like she used me to make herself feel better about some **** she was going through at the time and then broke up with me when she felt better. She felt like it wasn't a good time for her to be in a relationship, doubted whether we were right for each other, blah blah blah. The break up wasn't exactly amicable but I didn't feel like it ended in us hating each other at all. Long story short, we fell hard for each other but she broke up with me after a few months. So I had this relationship that lasted a few months last summer. |
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